Some people claim that there are "secrets" within Mormon temples because of the unwillingness of some members to discuss what goes on. Let me explain why some people do not with to discuss temples the way that has been done throughout this page. Mormon temples are holy places set apart by the Lord, and are to be held as sacred. When members of the Mormon Church enter LDS temples, they make a promise that they will not openly discuss certain aspects of the temple outside of the temple doors, even with other members of the LDS church. This is not an attempt to hide anything that is being done, but rather is part of an effort to keep what is done in temples sacred and special. This site has taken great lengths to try and explain the rituals of the Mormon temple while respecting that sacred nature.
The primary purpose of this section is to help both Mormons and non-Mormons understand how to discuss the temple outside of its doors. If you are curious and have questions, how do you ask a member of the LDS church in a way that is respectful? If you are a member being asked, how do you answer questions without going too far?
To those with questions, be patient and understanding. Be considerate if those whom you are questioning don't feel comfortable discussing the material. If they are open to discussion, though, feel free to ask why they do what they do and their own personal feelings about it.
To you who are receiving questions, be open and honest; the work done in temples is important and people are curious. There is nothing wrong with discussing the purposes of the ordinances and the ideas behind them. Since it can be difficult to explain the endowment, you may feel more comfortable showing them a copy of the applicable sections of the Pearl of Great Price. We have promised not to discuss the actual symbols and promises, but we can do our best to answer those questions presented to us. Feel free to review the sections on this site regarding the different ordinances. There are also resources available by the Church. President Boyd K. Packer's book, "The Holy Temple" is also very useful.
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